Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Silent Girl Code? No Thanks.

Girl with Boyfriend hates Single girl.
Boyfriend will never leave Girlfriend for Single girl.
Boyfriend though, will cheat on Girlfriend with Single girl.
Note: Single girl is not responsible for Boyfriend and Girlfriend.

My thoughts are taking me back to an article I read not too long ago, but am now having trouble finding for you...sorry!  In short, it said that women must work together to keep men in check. Since we know "how they are" when it comes to sex, we must  look out for one another and make it clear to men that having their cake and eating it too is just not how it's gonna go down in this woman-run world! Hmm...

I'm not sure how I feel about this. The biggest issue women have is blaming each other rather than blaming the dude. We all know that though so I don't feel like bitching about it now. Instead I'm curious to know cheating stats. I'm finding that with age, more and more people I know have done it, are doing it, are having it done to them, are choosing to allow it, and are healthily accepting of it.  I'm also curious to know how many relationships would define themselves as successful because one partner has sought outside relations (physical, emotional or both).

Listen, I'll admit it, I'm not exactly innocent, but I'm finding more and more comfort over time when hearing about LOTS of other people with similar experiences. It's sort of crazy how apparent "cheating" is in today's society.  Although I dream of a monogamous lifestyle, I'm often wondering why we still in 2012, are trying so hard to hold onto a two-some style romantic life that takes a lot more work and stress than just being free?

It's hard enough taking care of myself and my needs but to start worrying about yours....sheesh! I can't take care of your relationship too! I'll mind my business and you mind yours. Here's a confession: I don't feel so bad about things I should probably feel bad about. How's that for a "see you in hell" sign off?! Hahah

Just getting back to NYC from NJ. My mom had a small surgery done that was put on hold for a few weeks because her heart tests were coming back funny. I don't even wanna get into the stress I've been under!! That woman drives me crazy.

I've got 2 shows this week!! I get to play in Coney Island with some Aussies on Thursday night and then Saturday night is gonna be a super fun record release party at Otto's Shrunken Head! Woot, can't wait. I'm gonna see if the gold sequin dress can make it to Thursday night. That shit would be dope, I'm just thinking the zipper isn't going to deliver. I'll have to play around with it a bit more before hand!

Hope to catch you at a show soon, if not have a great week and I'll see you next time!!

Ciao for now,


1 comment:

  1. Lol you crack me up. I hope ma dukes is OK. Sending love